This year I have decided not to do Christmas cards. Life's a little chaotic and i'm always trying to save a buck, so we decided to just post a few pictures on here and do a little Christmas post. This will reach a lot more people than our cards would have anyways! Than I will update you on Layne.
I normally would update everyone on our year, in our cards but I think everyone is quite aware of the year we have had. So I have been trying to think of things that have happened that we have been very grateful for this year, that you might not be aware of.
1) Anyone who knows me knows I detest being pregnant. After having Ty I was adamant I was not having anymore children. Earlier this year we decided to broach the possibility of having one more child. In my life I have always relied heavily on prayer to help guide and direct me. This was a very serious decision for me as I am a high risk pregnancy due to having a DVT (blood clot) with my first pregnancy...and I hate being pregnant :) In our church we also have temples we can attend. Like in the days of the old testament, God commanded his people to build temples, that are considered sacred, so he can help teach, guide and bless us. So for this decision I also went to the Cardston temple looking for an answer to my prayers. I was able to receive an answer. I knew we had one more child ready to come down to meet us. I have never had an experience like that. So of course We were able to get pregnant right away but had a miscarriage at 6 weeks. I was wondering why it happened but we tried again and were able to get pregnant 2 weeks after having the miscarriage. I thought that was weird that it happened so quickly, I honestly wondered if I hadn't had a miscarriage. If I hadn't my due date would have put me right when we were back in the hospital with Layne's second surgery. That would have been a nightmare. Right now it looks like life will be a bot more calm when the baby comes and Layne should be able to make the birth. I am thankful to be able to recognize these small blessings in our life. I am thankful we made the decision to have one more child, as had I not been pregnant when all this happened I would not have been having another baby. I am glad we listened to those promptings.
2) In May this year we were able to go on a family trip. I was feeling pretty anxious about spending some time with our family and having some fun when Layne was done his semester at school. My parents planned a trip to vegas for a week and invited my family along. We decided to go down a week earlier and drive from Vegas to California to spend some time there and have some fun there. We are very careful with our money and normally don't splurge but I am glad we did spend some money and enjoy time together. Layne at that time was having really bad abdominal pain and bleeding while we were down there but a few days into the trip it all disappeared while we were there and he was able to enjoy the trip without feeling sick. I am so glad nothing serious happened while we were there. Again I am thankful we were able to do this before the second half of the year happened. It was much needed for our family.
3) Speaking of money, I am glad I married a man who is "frugal" :) We have always been very careful with money. I am thankful for this. We would have a lot more stress in our lives this year had we not been financially okay. I am also thankful that we have family here who help us and Jackie and Rusty letting us live with them. This has eased our financial burden as well. I am thankful we were able to find renters for our house so quickly after making the decision to move to Magrath. I am so thankful to have a job where I can provide for our family if needed. I have always felt strongly about getting an education and keeping a job and my license as a dental hygienist. I now know why.
4) I am thankful for my Saviour Jesus Christ. I am thankful for the atonement. I am thankful for the scriptures and knowledge and understanding it gives us. I am thankful for this time of year and how we can focus on the birth of the Saviour. I am thankful for opportunities to serve others, to try to be the best we can be by following the Saviours example. There is a video that has been floating around this christmas season that I absolutely love. It's a beautiful rendition of "Angels We Have Heard On High". Here's the link,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PrLoWt2tfqg
5) Lastly, I am thankful for my husband. I came across a quote that I think completely describes us.
"A strong marriage doesn't always have two strong people at the same time. It has a husband and wife who take turns being strong for each other in the moments when the other feels weak."
I have always said that I feel like Layne and I compliment each other. When I am not okay he always knows how to help me and has a good head on his shoulders about what is going on. When he is struggling, I am always able to help him and be level headed. During everything that has happened this year there have been times where this stands true, we have been there for each other. When Both of us are struggling together it has been through your prayers and concern that has helped lift us up. Thank you!
Merry Christmas From The Barnett Family!!! (see update on Layne below)






Layne has done well with another round again. He is starting to notice his hair thinning and its becoming more course. He won't loose it but he notices a change. This time he also had the neuropathy in his hands. After we left his treatment from the hospital we stopped at Costco for lunch and a quick grocery shop. We ate first because the boys and I were starving. Layne sat at the table with the boys while I got the food. When I got to the table I noticed Layne holding his hands funny. He couldn't move them or move his fingers. I ended up having to feed him his pizza. I wonder what people were thinking. Here I am 9 months pregnant, 2 crazy boys and feeding my husband. All I could do was laugh. The neuropathy would come and go over the next 4 days only lasting for about 15 minutes long. Usually touching something cold would trigger it. This is what the oncologist is most worried about. Eventually chemo can cause permanent paralysis of your finger tips. We have to monitor it carefully and make sure it goes away between treatments. If it starts to become more of a problem they will eliminate another drug. You can also tell after each round it takes him a bit longer to rebound from it. He gets a little more tired with each round.
Layne was able to get an ultrasound and was diagnosed with a hernia. It's tiny but will flare up every once in a while and be quite painful. He also thinks he is getting another one on the other side of his stomach, so we will be going in for another ultrasound most likely. He has an appointment with the surgeon at the end of January to find out what the treatment will be for that.
Layne's next round will be next Monday. He will get his bottle taken off on Christmas Eve. He isn't getting a break for Christmas :) Fingers crossed he will feel good on Christmas day. Blake came up with a great idea to hand out candy canes to all the nurses and patients that are at the cancer centre on Monday. That should be fun for them! I have an appointment on January 2nd with my OBGYN. He is going to see if he can get things started, as Layne will be on his "off week" that week and will be feeling his best. We are going to have a busy few weeks with family here and geting ready for the baby to come!!
This little nut got water on his pants and wouldn't wear them and then became obsessed with gloves and decided to put them on both feet and hands!
Snuggles with dad while he got his his bottle off and hydrated.
Getting hydrated a few days after getting his bottle off. He had a nice snooze. He was TIRED!